ILLNESS
BELIEFS AND COPING
If you have endometriosis, do you see yourself
as being “ill”? Or do you only see
yourself as “ill” during those times
when you are actually symptomatic? People who
are permanently symptomatic may view themselves
as permanently “ill”. Others may
alter their illness beliefs over time, such
that having endometriosis becomes a part of
who they are, and is no longer an issue of health
or illness.
Illness beliefs are important because they
can have an effect on coping strategies. Although
we do not know much about how illness beliefs
affect coping in women with endo, we do know
something about what happens with people suffering
from other illnesses.
One study of people with chronic fatigue syndrome
(CFS) (Moss-Morris et al, 1996), found that
those with a strong illness identity, who strongly
identified themselves with the core symptoms
of CFS, used coping strategies such as venting
emotions, using alcohol as a distracter and
engaging in wishful thinking. These people had
lower levels of psychological adjustment overall.
The people with CFS who believed that there
were things they could do to help themselves,
or to deal with their symptoms, used coping
strategies like planning, active coping and
positive reinterpretation (trying to look at
your illness in a positive light). They tended
to be the ones who sought emotional support
for their illness, did not to resort to alcohol,
and were better adjusted psychologically.
THE IMPORTANCE OF POSITVE REINTEPRETATION
The work of one woman with endometriosis
illustrates the notion of positive reinterpretation,
and shows how it is possible to turn the negative
experience of endometriosis, into something
more positive. Jane Berstein is an artist, who
spent years in pain with endo before being diagnosed,
and, in the years before diagnosis, her art
was very important to her in coping with her
symptoms. She says:
“The importance of documenting my
symptoms (ie the pain) through my artwork was
so necessary for me – knowing that it
validated my suffering and knowing that there
was something wrong with my body even though
the medical doctors missed the diagnosis….I
needed to document, to have proof that I actually
went through this horrendous pain. The documentation
for validation of my symptoms, specifically
the pain, were in my drawings.” (Berstein,
1995, p56)
This demonstrates the difficulties of dealing
with the lack of a “name” for an
illness. But more importantly, it illustrates
how one woman has turned her illness into something
positive, by using it as inspiration for her
art, and in doing so, has found a way of coping
better with it. It is clear that for Jane, being
able to document her experience through art
has been beneficial in her overall experience
of endometriosis, allowing for a positive reinterpretation
of her illness.
COULD SUPPORT GROUP MEMBERSHIP BE POSITIVE
REINTERPRETATION FOR SOME WOMEN?
Given what we know about strategies
for coping with illness, joining a support organisation
might be helpful. However, because of the different
ways in which individuals cope, this would not
appeal to everybody.
People who use active coping strategies or
positive reinterpretation are likely to seek
out information, to take control and become
active in managing their illness.
People who cope by seeking emotional support
are likely to look for ways of meeting others
to share experiences and support one another.
These sound like the kinds of individuals who
might join a support group.
If the study with sufferers of CFS is correct,
then these are also the kinds of people who
are likely to be better adjusted psychologically.
Does that mean that members of support groups
cope better with endometriosis than women who
are not members?
If so, then the interesting question to ask
is whether we joined a support group because
that’s the kind of people we are, and
we would always have coped better with our illness
than other women who are not members; or whether
joining a support group has actually improved
our ability to cope.
Hopefully, this article has posed more questions
than it has answered, and it might help us to
think more clearly about endometriosis as an
illness which affects us on many different levels.
It should also help us to think about suport
groups as organisations which could help us
in many different ways.
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